My best suggestion is buy yourself a nice pair of headphones (Sony MDR-V6 are great and well priced) and plug your headphones and guitar into your amp then plug in your favorite show that Mama Tried is on. Just keep playing along 'till you get it. Before I discovered this pure escasty I used to just turn my stereo up and play. When you aren't sure whether you can hear yourself or not, you got. In this method you only hear yourself when you are making mistakes. I have learned so much about the way songs are actually played this way, sort of picking up where rukind can't really help you anymore. Good luck, and keep playing Dead.